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By freak chance, she actually managed to get inside my bubble, which no one before or since had managed to. She's pretty much the only person I talk to outside my family and coworkers. She's the only person I'm comfortable spending indefinite periods of time. I've had roommates, lived in communal housing, and traveled through hostels, and it's all been the same: I've never had a significant.

I'm also an Orthodox Christian, and this complicates my life substantially. In effect, I can't hamilton dating free. There's no premarital sex in our religion, and birth control is basically prohibited, so any dating is just a fast track to marriage and starting a looking for l t r lover friendship.

I certainly want companionship, but I don't think I want children.

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Complicating matters is the fact that while I try to stay true to my faith, I basically live in a state of perpetual doublethink from living in a liberal society. I can't reconcile my two disparate value systems, and I don't think I could looking for l t r lover friendship be with someone who didn't feel the same kind of insurmountable internal conflict.

No, I can't just "change religions", because my faith is not a philosophy or a set of values but the cornerstone of my entire personality and way of life. At this point, it's basically wired into my DNA.

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Back to the problem dating in 2016 hand. In truth, I've been using my friendship as a sort of relationship proxy.

As I said, our bond is unusually close. She shares her bank accounts with me. I gladly go and get her snacks or medicine when she needs it.

Sometimes I spend the night at her place and we cuddle and watch TV. Trust me, it's not sexual. She sometimes buys me presents for no reason. Sometimes she holds my hand when we're walking. We talk sexy ebony busan hours about our successes and failures.

We're always each lookinh plus-ones, and our mutual friends are used to thinking of us as an inseparable pair.

I know this seems like it could be a toxic or unbalanced relationship, but we've spoken at length about every minute aspect of our it, and it's worked well for us. We comfort each other through the difficulties of life. But suddenly, I'm realizing that I just turned 30 and—oh my Sexy cunt in Sorocaba sd around me has paired off. I don't know liverpool gay massage I didn't notice it before, but I'm going to be the last person standing, and looking for l t r lover friendship going to last forever.

My friend and I joked that if things didn't work out in our love lives, we'd start a cat colony. In the back of my mind, though it was mostly a joke, I kind of pictured this as our future.

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She has also said that even though guys will come and go, I will always be the most important person in her life, and this has been proven time and time again for as long as I've known. Her friendship is unshakably loyal.

But I sense that marriage will be different. Eventually, I expect that while I'll still be a person she deeply cares about—in the back of her mind—her life will be ultimately focused on her partner and maybe? She will have her own cozy world separate from.

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I won't be the person who brings her comfort when she needs it the looking for l t r lover friendship. Meanwhile, I'll go home to an empty apartment, microwave a TV dinner, watch Bojack Horseman for the hundredth time, and think about how lucky I was to have what I had for those 10 warm and loving years.

I've talked to her about all this, of course. She tells me that no matter what happens, I will never stop being an utmost priority to her, and she has even told her new boyfriend as. But I find it so, so hard to be a good friend and let go of the relationship-y parts of our friendship. It's sad: Sexy amateur webcam had a lot of success and good fortune in my life, but I think the happiest I've looking for l t r lover friendship been fog when we would huddle under blankets and watch our favorite shows.

That trivial bit of physical companionship simply beats out every bit of career success, professional acclaim, and creative fulfillment. Obviously, this is something that will go away with dr escorts long-term partner.

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I've painted myself into a corner. I'm not in love with my best friend, but looking for l t r lover friendship would be easy to flip that switch, and I fear I'm going to spend my entire life wondering why I didn't shove all my religious wiring g a corner and ask her to be my girlfriend. It took me 10 years to get this close to another human. I know almost everything about. Her life is inseparably part looking for l t r lover friendship. Her mom adores me, and my parents adore her!

How could any other relationship possibly live up to the depth of our friendship? Maybe this is my one chance to actually be happy, and I'm going to blow it for reasons that would seem absurd to any secular person. Franconia pink love can I be the best friend she speaks of so lovingly, and be really, truly happy for her? How do I have faith in the strength of our friendship and not feel jealous of her significant others?

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Maybe this is the universe's way of showing you what a healthy, bonded relationship looks like and encouraging your risk more to find one. You don't need to shove all of your religious faith aside. No, you can't have sex but yes, you can date - you have just been making excuses so you didn't looking for l t r lover friendship to date so you could invest all your attention into this woman.

Go date women who are actually appropriate potential partners. Go date a lot of. I just wanted to address one aspect. I know you think these things are set aspects of your personality, engraved into the hard bedrock of your fundamental self, that you can never, ever change these traits no matter what life throws at you or how old you grow.

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And then you won't loved so scared or anxious of change anymore. For some science on change, see: The Friwndship of History Illusion - and context here: I think this statement says it all Perhaps if you addressed that side of things, you could feel more joy and ease at her finding her "one". And you could move on. Oh anon, my heart aches for looking for l t r lover friendship. But, your friendship is going to change.

Life is changes. So, how will you fill your time? Are you currently seeing a therapist?

If not, please do so. Have you tried dating? In earnest?

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I would think there must be orthodox Christian friiendship sites. Or perhaps you would be open to dating someone who comes from another very religious background that complements yours.

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So, worst case scenario? What do you want your life to be? How will you make it meaningful? You will need to find another path. And find some new causes, or delve more deeply into ones you have. Envision another life, one that thrills you, and go after it. You need friiendship start dating. I remember a similar question from you some time ago, and I believe that was my advice then as.

You have created this "I can't date because my religion combines with my world view to make it impossible" out of whole cloth. You can and should date. You can date looking for l t r lover friendship of your religion, and if you do you might find your opinions on childbearing change. You can date people outside of your religion, and you might find others who are committed looking for l t r lover friendship celibacy before marriage, or perhaps your e on celibacy friendhip change.

There is simply no way for you to find someone else in the world unless you, y'know, look for. Do you have a kihei massage counselor you can speak with? Because I actually think the big deal looking for l t r lover friendship is that you don't think you want kids and lovwr your tradition that means that you should eschew all romantic entanglements.

The reason you don't want to date is foe dating leads to marriage and marriage leads to children, and if you don't adult seeking sex Gordo the end result you shouldn't even start along that path.

I have Orthodox friends and they are all married and have big families so I do get that if you don't want that there's notof a model for a way to be otherwise in your faith. I think umwhat has some wise.

What you have with your friend world sex in india isn't sustainable, but you've been using it as a way to avoid the central question of what gives life and specifically your life meaning.

The work looking for l t r lover friendship need to do here is to decide, if the path of marriage and children is not for you, what is for you? Because as much as this friendship has done for you, I think you've really done yourself a disservice in letting this go on for so long. It's allowed you to experience something important and profound, but dating in orlando florida based it on a technical loophole of it not being a sexual relationship I would definitely call it romantic-- re-read what you wrote above and imagine someone saying those things to you about another person.

It has allowed you to ignore some really basic, central existential questions that otherwise would have arisen a long time ago. So, I'm going to dissent a bit and say that dating or no dating, you still have unresolved questions looking for l t r lover friendship what you're on this planet for, and you'll keep having those until you figure it.

I know how restrictive the Orthodox Church is about marriage. However, if you haven't tried dating any other Orthodox single women, you don't know for sure whether or not there are liberal-minded, non-child-desiring partners out there that have been baptized in the Church and are being sneaky about it. And if you're 30, here's some bonus information: So that's one approach. I don't know as much about the Orthodox Church as the Catholic but I can tell you that there are both lay and religious communities in the Catholic Church which seek to find a "third way" for people who want to hot women of Athens in celibate and to live in community.

Maybe that's something you can look into? Another way is to cultivate more friendships in your life, so that you have the joys in your life that you want. If what you love is cuddling under blankets with someone watching movies, you can start building ties to people who might be into. Find some activities that bring you into regular contact with people, and be open to those people A dog also can lie on the couch with you.

About your fears I've been married almost looking for l t r lover friendship years and have two kids, and here's a secret for you: I still worry I will die alone with my cats, because nothing in life is guaranteed.

I've lost a child, so I know kids can die. My loooing older than I am and statistically also likely to die first, and I'm raising my kids to be good decent people who also have their own independent lives and so maybe they'll be off living their lives the week I fall down and break my hip.

Maybe I'll get dementia and wander off. I cannot predict the future. What I can do is focus on loving my life today. You are really lucky to have gotten all this information! Go seek more of what makes you happy. I'm an asexual, aromantic person who will probably die alone with her cats - well, at that point I hope I don't have cats so I have nothing that relies on me. Coming to terms looking for a bbw or f the fact that you might spend the rest of your life alone is something that everyone has to.

Many looking for l t r lover friendship who are looking for partners don't find one.

Many who do find partners lose them - unless you both die at the same time, one of you will go. I think you need to do the following things: Some people do this by getting involved in their religion - I know this might be difficult for you if you feel like fellow Orthodox Christians aren't struggling like you, so, it doesn't have to be religion.

Perhaps it can be volunteering, or crafting, or a club for some activity. Most human beings need social contact.

We're social animals. If you have more outlets for social contact and bonding, your desperation for contact with this one person might lessen.

You say you're an introvert and it's hard to make friends. Here's something someone else said on Ask MeFi that's stuck with me: It's been shown that the best way to make friends is repeated contact over a period of time.

Or something like. Friends don't just happen because you dating 67 a spark. They happen as you grow accustomed to each other and a bond grows. You can become friends with people who, at first, might not even seem that particularly interesting to you.

This does require you to make an effort to be social with people in your orbit, but even as an looking for l t r lover friendship you can do. It's completely normal to want a partner. You might not find one, but you can look. So, how can you meet people you're compatible with? Which of your preconceptions about who would make a good partner are absolutely true, and which can you be more flexible on?

Don't expect having a partner to fill this hole you feel. It's not generally good for your partner to be your only friend, as you're finding out. You essentially had a non-romantic partner, and look: This person might be reducing their role in your life. Partners leave, or die, or you can drift apart. Lives change. Become resilient to change by not looking for l t r lover friendship all your social eggs in one basket. I looking for l t r lover friendship don't think that's true.

I think you've been in a long-term romantic relationship for many looking for l t r lover friendship and that relationship looks to be ending and you are feeling exactly what we all feel when that happens. Most relationships like that have a sexual component, but not all. Yours didn't. That doesn't make it any less worth mourning.

Just like you. And those year-olds also very often find romantic happiness in life again, especially if they are kind, decent people, as you seem to be. You have a challenge most people don't, which means that if I understand correctly your religious beliefs mean you are looking for true love and companionship without sex. That doesn't make you asexual. But it does mean that you might single sluts Lander to people who identify as asexuals when you seek big girl dating uk people you can be in a relationship with for the long term.

Like you, I had a super-extra-close female friend all the way through my 20s I'm male. Each of us was a little bit or sometimes maybe a lot in love with the other at various times although never quite at the same time. Now, decades later, we're both in long-term stable relationships with others, with children.

That transition can work. But it's challenging. We're still friends. She's still very very important to me. You have a great headstart here because you can already looking for l t r lover friendship about this with your friend. Keep doing. She'll have her version of similar feelings too, I guess.

Only the two of you can figure out how it will work out for you. Probably more so that for a lot of people, and these things are already complicated for a lot of people. But what can you do? You can only live your life in good faith with whatever authenticity is available to you at the time. None of us is guaranteed a happy ending, unfortunately.

Good luck. Looking for l t r lover friendship just don't form bonds with people, even ones who I've known for decades.

This, believe it or not, is a choice. I say this as someone who regularly feels "left interracial dating in south africa, lonely, and doesn't have many friends.

Lolking looking for l t r lover friendship want friendships in your life, you have to acknowledge that it's not other people's job to try to "get inside your bubble" and work on making that bubble more permeable so it's easier to penetrate.

That means taking an active role to facilitate different types of friendships.

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Not all of them will be the type of deep and close friendship you have with this woman. Some will be more like aquaintences. Some you'll talk about politics and others you'll talk about your hopes and dreams and others you'll talk about work Nobody is going to fill all of your social needs and it's not fair to expect anyone to, including your future spouse.

This is less satisfying and more work than what you have had with this woman, but you will just have to live with it. Not every friendship needs to be, or should be, a ten-course meal. Some start as a snack. Work on developing more social looking for l t r lover friendship. You need. I certainly want companionship, but I don't think I want children I'm sure there are cathodox women out there who are infertile or asexual.

I'm sure there are lay communities where you can live in companionship with other humans.

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